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Yes we begin to act like primates
Oh... to be young
She's definitely has interest! And I would think a lot of it because she planned something like that for a second date.
Remember though, women don't always (usually) mean what they say. She may say Valentine's day is stupid and that you shouldn't do anything, but I would at least send a card. Women want acknowledgement and a card does that. And a text or phone call on Thursday wouldn't hurt either. IF you think she changes her mind and wants some flowers, do NOT buy carnations. Just my thoughts.
Hope everything works out for you!
Okay, here's my serious take it or leave it advice. Just my
1. From what I've read so far, she seems like a no nonsense kind of girl. The fact is, she is really into you. She likes you. There's no doubt. A girl isn't going to plan a whole surprise date and ask a favor from a friend for just anybody. So, tread carefully on the V Day stuff. I'd say fill her out in the morning. Send her a little text in the morning saying something like "Will you be my Valentine? :P" See how she reacts. One thing for certain, she's not going to cut you off for a week. From what I see so far, it looks like she likes you too much for that.
2. Based upon what you hear from her in the morning will be based upon what you do that afternoon. Just listen to what she may text about Valentine's Day, if anything at all. If you send flowers, don't play it off sappy. You've only had a couple of dates, so play it off funny. Send them with a card that says something like "Happy anti-Valentines Day!" Play around with something about how your sending these to hate Valentine's Day together. JMO
3. You need to get some confidence. You're the turf toe expert man. You're so bad ass you have the user name of a Tennessee legend who went down to Texas to kick ass and take names. You're so frigging badass that you studied Zoology, not because you like animals, but because you relate to them and you're an animal. You're a badass m'fer.
Finally, did you go in for a kiss after this date? If not, you need to definitely man up and go for it the next one.
This post was edited by Rocklion2000 14 months ago
Crockett, the best advise for Valentine's Day came from kyvol. Do send flowers, but say on the card that these are "not for Valentine's Day. I have my own reasons and you will just have to find out what they are."
Women always claim they don't care about VD, but trust me, they do. They all do. And if you don't do anything, or do something cheap like send a card, or something incredibly insensitive like just sending a text, you're making your first mistake.
Great thread! Deep in our hearts, we all want to be Dear Abby. Some of us are just better at it than others!
Not sure if this is what happens with everybody but I know the few times I found a girl I was really into I caught myself trying to hard to do all the right things and tried to be what I thought society said was a good guy and it ended up backfiring. Brat thing you can do is be you and take it a day at a time
Crocket!!! this!!! you get my first BBBOOOOOOOOOMMMMMM!!!!! cause that sounds amazing!!! and about the v-day thing.. I would think a simple card, not even a v-day card, would be perfect just to let her know u care and were thinking about here. and also its not to valentine-ish.. should get u in some good graces and not labeled as too much of a sapp lol
He said that she dropped him off, so he is not there to fill her out...
Sounds like a fun date Crockett! You should be glad then you aren't 1 state to the west of you. Utah chicks start talking marriage on the first date. That is scary. Looks like you might have found one of the few sane women out there. Hope it all works out
The journey to becoming an Ironman
don't scare her off by pulling out the Crockett Rocket too soon... sorry, did I cross a line on that one
You just spoke in untruths. More like a firecracker...
M80...fuse is longer than explosive
After mentally reviewing the date a few 1000 times, I have decided to go in a slightly different direction for Vday. She is working that day, and mentioned a story (before the Vday talk) about a coworker being embarrassed at work by something ridiculous that happened, and how she enjoyed poking some fun.
So, here is her Vday gift (minus Japanese girl):
Thats like a lifesize teddy bear lol
Oh yes. I have the card all written too. I am 99.9% sure it'll be a homerun.
With the Japanese girl might be more fun!
Just make sure it does not say I hope you enjoy your VD
I don't know. I'd send the Japanese girl too.
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